How to Attract a Man?

Are you successful at attracting guys, or do you need a little help? Would you rather spend the next weekend alone or enjoy the company of a great guy? Do you sometimes feel sorry for yourself because you feel there are no good guys left? If you ever feel this way, it's time to stop moping and take control. You can easily learn to attract a great guy just by changing your attitude toward men and dating.

Looks aren't everything but they are important. It's just a fact in life that men are drawn to attractive women. When a woman takes care of her body and appearance, it tells a man that she values herself and that she is worth getting to know. Rather than fighting against this, accept it and do the best you can with what you have. A dowdy appearance tells a man that you have given up, and that is not the message you want to send when you are trying to attract a guy.

Confidence is the best accessory. And when you put a little effort into your appearance, you will automatically feel better about yourself and exude an aura of confidence. There are many other ways to put your confidence on display. First, pay attention to your posture. When you slump your shoulders you look older and worn down. Always make eye contact with people you meet. Being able to look a person directly in the eye communicates a very powerful subconscious message that you are confident and in control. Smile frequently. This gives you a warm, approachable demeanor.

Be available. You can't attract a guy if you stay at home all the time. And rather than travel in packs with other women, go it alone or with only one or two other friends. Being with others may make you feel more comfortable, but it makes things harder for a guy that may want to approach you. Stop hiding behind your friends. Also, accept invitations to events that may not really want to go to. You never know who you could meet at these functions. You don't have anything to lose, and it sure beats sitting at home alone.

If you want to attract a guy, stop thinking about all the reasons men aren't attracted to you, and actually give them a chance to get to know you. Use these tips to combat the voices in your head that tell you that you aren't good enough or pretty enough. So go ahead and break out of the ruts that have been holding you back.